From the word Relationship, we get the following-
*Relate
*Relation
*ship
# Relate means to interact, to establish a logical or casual connection between people.
# Relation- a connection of people by blood or marriage.
# Ship- a large vessel that transport people to their destination which may take longer days or years.
The dictionary defines a relationship as a cultural, romantic or passionate attachment between people. A state of affair existing between two or more people.
From the concept above, I define a relationship as a connection between people which may end up taking them to their desired destination which will take long days/years as the case may be so as to give them a lasting bond.
Roger that.
If you are to define love, what would your definition be? How much sense does the word even make to you?
Although to the society, the word love has become a cliche, people use it without giving a thought to what it really means to the extent that it has lost its meaning.
Many have different definition of love. To some, love is a deep feeling of affection, a mutual feeling towards another person. To others, love is synonymous with physical intimacy and as far as some others are concerned, love is just sweet words.
However, it must be noted that without a proper understanding of who God is, none can experience, define or express what truly love is.
Love is God.
Love is the unselfish, loyal, and benevolent intention and commitment of one's self towards another.
Love is that universal language that the most unlearned barbarian understands and instinctively responds to.
Love is the golden key that fits all lock. The most powerful remedy that has melted many hardened heart and broken many barriers.
Love is the bedrock of every relationship. It's the most important and makes every relationship admirable, desirable and beautiful. The kind of love that can nourish any relationship is one that is patient and kind.
When it goes Wrong!!!
Every relationship has its up and down but when it begins to hurt, it isn't uncommon for us to hang on to what seems like a relationship with no future just because we had a great part in the early stages.
A person who cannot change the very fabric of their thoughts will never be able to change reality, so, quietly forgive and move on.
Letting Go
Letting go is a gift to yourself and very often a change of self is needed more than a change of scene.
Roger that.
Moving On
Re-adjusting is a painful process but most of us need it at one time or another in our lives. We ought to create our future from our present not our past.
Yes, there are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to let go/leave behind; but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world but the beginning of a new life. Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future but concentrate on the present moment.
Don't point fingers at someone because you are unhappy or because the relationship didn't work out. Never regret anything because at some point, everything you did was exactly what you wanted. The more anger you carry in your heart towards the past, the less capable you are and will be of loving in the present.
Your eyes are on the front of your head for a reason, So keep looking forward and never back to the past.
Make It Work!!
Romance, roses, chocolates and champagne are only a small part of what makes up a good relationship. Work towards getting the best in your relationship and make it work for what its worth.
If you are currently in any relationship right now, below are tips I have that will help that relationship lead to an everlasting bond.
Tips:
# Re-commitment is very necessary
# Appreciate all the time
# Acknowledge the little things done for you.
# Do what makes your partner feel most loved.
# Take responsibility
# Dream together (that's my favourite part)
# Share memories from your past.
# Play games together.
Always act like you did that first time you both were in the infatuation period of your relationship.
Remember to let go if that relationship is heading nowhere. Time waits for no one.
I'm still a learner too but; I hope these will really do us good.
Source Ruth Dulac's Blog
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